Thursday, December 15, 2011

Take a moment and listen this..

Reflecting

I have sat here all evening working on a book that I'm writing and reflecting back on many periods in my life where God has seen me through so many uncertain times. I have reflected on becoming a young father and husband, leaving my family for military training and my years spent running from God. Not really a bad guy, just a luke warm guy.  Not everyone is called to preach, teach, or sing. But we are all called to be a disciple of Christ and to live a life in pursuit of righteousness . God has seen me through all my years of running and has shaped and molded every detail of my life, for this time in my life. Although I entered the ministry at what many would consider late in life, it was all in God’s timing and for His purpose. It’s never too late to submit to what God has for you.My biggest burden is for the people living a life as I was for so many years. Believing that God won’t allow “good” people to go to hell.  Can I tell you that hell is and will continue to be, full of good people. You see, Christianity is about a relationship, not a religion.  If you are not developing and pursuing a relationship with Jesus Christ, you are not serving out the one main calling on your life of being a disciple of Christ.  Anyway, my reflection is just that I am glad to see that God had His hand on me this whole time and I am glad that the last several years has been for His service. I don’t really regret my beginning years I just wonder sometimes how much more I could have done for  God if I had submitted to my calling sooner. Even if you’re not called to greater works, don’t delay your calling and Biblical mandate  to pursue a relationship with Jesus Christ,  it could just cost you your eternity.

Monday, December 12, 2011

Living a full filling Christian Life

Living a Full Filling Christian Life

A plan for success



Have you ever wondered why others in your church seem to be happier and have a closer relationship with God. Do you ever wonder why you just can’t seem to reach God or think that he is not paying any attention to you.  I think that we all have been at that point some time in our Christian walk, well I’m going to share with you the formula to get the most out of life and the most out of God.

Everything I tell you is from experience and not just repeating what I’ve heard or re-spouting a sermon from somewhere, I have lived the mistakes that have proven to me what God wants for our lives.

What does God want for our lives ?

First and foremost God wants us to except the salvation of Jesus Christ. God does not desire that anyone should die and go to Hell. If He had wanted that He would not have created a plan of salvation for us..

God wants each of us to be happy and have joy in our lives. He expects that we prosper in everything we do.  He also desires that we be worshippers and live by the teachings of Jesus Christ.

How do we achieve a victorious and full filling  Christian life  ?

I’m going to give you the formula for success in living a full filled life in Christ. It is a proven fact that if you follow this formula you will indeed succeed.   A warning though, going into this formula half heartedly will not be successful, in fact you may very well fail altogether by altering or leaving out any part of the formula. However, by following this success plan you will have a very full filled life in Christ and be a joy filled Christian….

The Plan

Step One:

Control the Battle for your mind:

Satan uses three weapons for the control of your mind, if you can recognize and control these three areas then you  are ahead of Satan. The weapons he uses are thoughts, ideas, and suggestions.  Satan uses any of these three tools to control your actions.  Understand and recognize this strategy and you can regain the control of your mind. Not understanding and recognizing what Satan is doing will lead to sin and failure. Not understanding this is why good Christians fail…

Prepare the ground for the battle and victory.

You must prepare the ground for the seed to be planted and a harvest to come. The ground that must be prepared is in your heart..   Hosea 10:12 says   Sow yourselves in righteousness, reap in mercy, break up your fallow ground, for it is time to seek the lord till he comes and rain  righteousness upon you (KJV)

God will provide the seed, God will provide the water through the Holy Spirit. You must prepare your heart, God will not do that for you. He will not trespass upon you.

We are going the explore a few ways to prepare your heart.

Submit your Life to God

I don’t mean just a little bit here, I mean all and totally. Submission to God means a total life transformation. You can’t serve two masters and you can’t serve two God’s. Meaning the world and God. An old Indian saying talks about the fact that man has two dogs living within him, and are fighting  to the death. The winner is the one you feed the most. 

Feed your Godly spiritual life and you will be successful, neglect it and it will die.

Study the Word of God.

I can not express  how important this area is. We have to read and study God’s word to understand what we believe and what God wants for our lives.  It astounds me sometimes when I consider that the Bible is a divine collection of 66 books written by 40 authors over a period of 1500 years. It has the same thread message of salvation from cover to cover and all attempts to destroy it has failed, all attempts to prove it wrong has proved it right; and we can’t spend 30 minutes a day to read it…

Find a good daily Bible or a daily devotional. Read the Bible with a purpose. Before you start reading find a time and place that will be quite and you most likely will not be disturbed for at least 30 minutes. Then set aside this time every day to read and study your Bible.

Start with prayer and ask that God will open your mind and heart to receive the Word that you are about to read. Pray that  the Word will be planted in your heart and will speak to you. Then read the portion for the day and then spend a few minutes meditating on God’s word and asking how that word applies to your life.  End in prayer. Thank God for His word and ask for spiritual guidance throughout your day…

Tithing

Tithing is a subject that always brings up deep emotions and some preachers want to stay away from the subject. But let me tell you this truth. If you’re looking for a successful and fulfilled life in Christ you must be tithing.

How can you be filled with real joy and have a great relationship with God when you are stealing from him. Yes, I said stealing. The Bible is very clear, you are to give the first 10% of your increase back to God. It is all His to begin with, He sees that you get some but you are only allowed to keep 90%.

Tithing must also be done from a willing heart. Simply adding it to the list of bills to pay for the month and paying tithes out of pure obligation is not what God intended.  I believe that you will receive some blessing for being  obedient. But the greatest blessing’s come when you tithe your 10% and more because you want to and find real joy in doing so and giving back to God, that’s when real blessing’s will be poured out upon you…

Remember, I said that you cannot skip any step in the formula for success. Doing so will cause you to fail.



Become involved in Church and Church Activities

After submitting totally to God,  studying and reading your Bible, and paying your tithes you still must be involved in a Church and Church activities. Being involved in your local Church is imperative in your Christian walk.

I Corinthians 15:33 says; Do not be mislead: “Bad company corrupts good character” NIV

Now this of course doesn’t mean that you have to seclude yourself from all non-Christian people. You should be a witness to the unsaved and un-churched.  However, as stated in Romans 12:2 ; Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world. But be transformed by the renewing of your mind…NIV

So the sum of it is this. Yes you will be involved with non Christian people in your life but you  should be involved in church and church activities as much or more than you are other  activities.

Being involved in Christian work keeps your mind focused on doing God’s work and will help you battle the control for your mind that I talked about earlier.

Another area of being involved in church is being in church. Do you attend church regular or sometimes. Do you go more than just on Sunday morning, do you attend Sunday School or just service?  If church is second or third on your list of things to do on Sunday then you are already losing your victory.

Church attendance is crucial in developing your Christian life.  People ask me, is going to church really that important, I can serve God without going to church?  My answer is; can you? I don’t think that you can. Now this of course does not apply to those people that cannot physically be in church due to health or logistics. I’m referring to the people that choose not to attend church.  What’s the difference ? Well, mainly it is the desire of your heart.  If you chose to put God second on your list you will not live a very success life.  How important is church, well take this example. A large set of red hot coals in your BBQ grill stay hot a very long time. Now take one coal out and lay it outside the grill. It will stay hot for  a while, but very soon it will start to cool and the heat will die out. But take that coal and place it back in with the others and it will heat back up very quickly.  Being in church keeps you on fire and keeps you in a state of worship.

A closing thought on church attendance. God does not want to be served and worshipped at your convenience. You have a choice, submit to serving God or not, there is no such thing as treading water when it comes to serving God. Treading water will lead to sinking..

In Closing

Although I went through each of these areas quickly I think that you can see the formula for success here. It is now your responsibility to follow this formula and develop it further in your own life. My prayer and hope for you is that God puts a conviction in your life to desire serving Him to your fullest. It is then that you will truly find what living a victorious Christian life is all about.

Doing my Best to Serve

Darren Dake






Wednesday, December 7, 2011

NFocus Design Change

Good afternoon. By now I guess you all have noticed the name change and design layout change. NFocus  Ministries is now up and in operation. Check out our web site at www.nfocuschurchleader.com .   Also find us on  facebook and twitter, both can be accessed from our home page.  



NFocus’ mission is to help church leaders become better leaders, and better leaders become outstanding leaders. Church and Christian leadership has unique obstacles not found in traditional leadership experiences. That’s where we can help….



Please pass our web site along to church and Christian leaders that you know…





God Bless



Darren

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Thanksgiving Blessing..

To all my followers  I would like to take a moment and wish all of you a very Happy Thanksgiving. Please take time these next few days to reflect on what you do have to be thank full for. Even in the worst of times you can find the blessings if you look.  God is faithful and will bless. Sometimes we have to get out of the way to receive, but if you will just focus on Him and your relationship with Him,  you’ll find blessing.  



For any of you are close the Cuba, Missouri this weekend I’ll be preaching the morning service, (11 am) at Covenant Praise Church of God.  For church info or directions go to
 www.covenantpraise.com



Doing my best to serve,  God Bless

 

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Where I've been.......

It’s been a while since I have posted and hope to be back regular now. A lot has happened since my last post and I have gotten a few questions as to where I’ve been and where  my posts have been , so I will update you all and then promise that I will try to start posting more regular.


I have completed my ordination process with the Church of God, Clevland, TN and now hold the credentialing  level of ordained minister.  My wife and I are still battling this horrible dieses but God has been faithful and at the end of every rope we find ourselves sitting in God’s hands.   I have been asked to be on staff at Covenant Praise Church of God in Cuba, Mo. where I serve the people as Administrative Pastor. I love the position and love the people. It gives me such a wonderful opportunity to serve in an area that I am comfortable in and where God has gifted me.


I recently completed a sermon series entitled becoming  a Lion Chaser. It was based on the book,  In a pit with a lion on a snowy day. I hope to recount some of those sermon notes here over the next few weeks.



God Bless.